Sunday, April 21, 2019

Expanding our team and your experience!

A Butler's Manor opened for the season on April 1, and the following day we toasted Dina and Ralph, ABM's new managers, who will take the helm here for the 2019 spring and summer season.

It's been a jam-packed, intense couple of weeks as we've been training them in all aspects of running ABM. But it has truly also been a lot of fun. We find the four of us are very simpatico and training flows from early morning coffee service into shared dinner preparations, underscored by continual conversation. We joke that we've been living a communal life these past two weeks ("Wait! Whose apron is this?"..."I think that was my coffee cup...") but amazingly, despite the close quarters and the level of detail, I think I can speak for us all that it has really been a fun, enjoyable experience.

Dina has lots of fresh ideas for yummy, healthy breakfasts. Ralph is all about making things run smoothly and efficiently. Both are interested, engaged and on point...and both have the passion for creating awesome guest experiences.

Which is why we are so pleased to hand over the reins to Dina and Ralph for the next six months, absolutely confident that our guests will have every bit the same careful, personalized experience during the spring and summer of 2019 as they have had throughout our previous seventeen (!!) seasons.

I can't wait for you to meet them! Join us at our Southampton Bed and Breakfast and see what we mean!

Thursday, March 7, 2019

Our top 6 reasons to visit the Hamptons out of season


Early Spring is an excellent time to come to the Hamptons as a relaxing getaway. Here are our favorite reasons why:

1) If you enjoy seeing beyond the hedges at the big estates in the Hamptons, this is your chance. Most of those privet hedges are deciduous... which means that now they’re bare and won’t leaf in again in full until sometime in May. And chances are you’ll spot a few deer grazing on those estate lawns where no one is around to chase them away.

2)The trendy seasonal restaurants haven’t come to town yet, but our award-winning year-round places such as Plaza Cafe, Bistro Ete, 1770 House and Pierre's are open and won’t be crowded. (Now's your chance to get into Nick & Toni’s.)

3) Nope, there’s not a whole lot of nightlife, though you can catch a set at Steven Talkhouse or a concert at Bay Street Theater on weekends. And while the summer shops are still polishing their pop-up retail spots for the Memorial Day reopening, you can still check out some of our best, such as Hildreth’s, Rumrunner, Topiare and Sylvester’s for great household finds, or D.J Hart, J. McLaughlin, Chico's, Tenet or Jildor for clothing. Or, even better, check out off-season prices on consignment couture at Collette’s.

4) Bundle up and take a long walk on an empty beach, and pick out your fantasy beach house. Picture the parties you're going to have in it in the summer.

5) Oh, and wine! Nearly all of the wineries on both forks are open every day, all year. Without the crowds, it feels like you're having your own private tasting.

6) Most of all, the quiet season is a time to renew, recharge your batteries and most of all, reconnect. Has it been way too long since you've had the chance to look into each other’s eyes and really mean that “I love you?”

Now's your chance! And to sweeten the deal, we're offering a Spring Fling special: Stay for any two nights in April 2019 and we'll take 20% off your room rate! Find the details on our website here!

At A Butler’s Manor, we look forward to being your restorative getaway. Call to make your reservation today!

Saturday, January 26, 2019

A New Year and New Faces at A Butler's Manor!

Ralph and Dina, on one of their many adventures!
Chris and I are excited to announce that we are expanding our team at A Butler's Manor!

Meet our new Innkeeper Managers Ralph Landi and Dina Ferrante. This dynamic couple has had a long and varied background in restaurant ownership and management, construction management, life coaching, and more. 

Dina has owned her own yoga studio and still does worldwide retreats. Ralph is an accomplished restauranteur, currently a partner in two restaurants, one of which is in NYC. They have spent much of the past eight years in Colorado raising their now college-age son, and as you can imagine from living in such a locale are avid outdoor enthusiasts. They love to travel, love new experiences (ask them about running a treehouse inn in Costa Rica!) and love providing a nourishing experience, not just culinarily, but for the heart as well. Spend a little time talking to them and you are going to want their life!

Just to be clear, Chris and I still own and operate A Butler's Manor and will be in and out, but we are stepping away from full-time hands-on management. But should your visit dovetail with Dina and Ralph's tenure, we are certain you will experience the same welcoming and relaxing experience that has been Chris's and my mission to provide since 2002.

We all look forward to your visit!