I admit it, most things in and around the Hamptons are not cheap, especially in the summer. Which is why it's wonderful to share some of the best things we've found you can do here for little or no money.
Our favorite event here in Southampton is the Concerts in the Park series held at Agawam Park on Wednesdays between July 4th and Labor Day weekends. The band might be R&B/rockabilly (like the perennial local favorite group, the Lone Sharks), reggae, Big Band, Latin Jazz, 50's & 60's, or many other styles. It almost doesn't matter. What matters is that you grab a beach chair from the back porch, pick up a sandwich at Schmidt's or Job's Lane Deli or a pizza at La Parmigiana, uncork a bottle of wine, and enjoy the sounds of music in the open air as the sun sets over the park, and the sight of the little children (and sometimes adults!) dancing in front of the bandstand. The event is free, but the Southampton Cultural Center, who organizes it each year, sends out a bucket brigade at intermission to collect donations, and we encourage people to put what they can in that bucket...this is a wonderful resource that we stand to lose without support.
Other communities out here have outdoor concerts as well -- Montauk, on the village green on Monday evenings in July, Sag Harbor at Marine Park on Bay Street on Thursdays in August.
Chris and I haven't had the opportunity to catch one of the games of the new Hamptons Baseball League, part of the Atlantic Collegiate Baseball League, but they are fielding several talented teams this year, with games nearly every day of the week in various locations around the Hamptons (Southampton/Stony Brook University, right up the road, is our nearest venue). The ACBL is sanctioned by the NCAA, partially funded by Major League Baseball and is one of only nine summer leagues approved by the National Alliance of College Summer Baseball, so these guys are good!! More information here: http://www.hamptonsbaseball.org/page/show/68092-hamptons-collegiate-baseball-the-next-big-thing-
Not free, but mighty cheap for a full day of fun (and somehow, an event you'd almost expect to be in the Hamptons during the summer season): Go watch a polo match. For six weeks midsummer, Mercedes Benz sponsors the Polo Challenge matches in Bridgehampton. Okay, so you don't have a friend with VIP passes to get you in the tent, but $20 a carload will get you bleacher or tailgate seats (and you'll actually get to see the match). Never seen polo up close and personal? This is a fast moving sport, and the horses are incredibly trained. More info here: http://www.sportpolo.com/spectators/bhpolo.htm
One of the best values ever is the annual Hampton Classic Horse Show, which this year will take place August 23 - 30 off Snake Hollow Road in Bridgehampton. All ages compete in world-class hunting and jumping events, and Olympic champions often compete in the Grand Prix event on the final Sunday afternoon. Events on the days up until the Grand Prix are $20 a carload, with a fantastic shopping arcade of related merchandise to wander through, and the Grand Prix itself, a premiere equestrian event, is $20 per person for bench seats, $30 for premium seats. (Just for fun, you can check out the celebrities competing in their own right for media attention in the VIP tent opposite the ring.) Bring your hat and some sunscreen and see some exquisite horsemanship -- you'll be whistling My Fair Lady's "Ascot Gavotte" as you go. More info here: http://www.hamptonclassic.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=111&Itemid=87
Finally, many guests here have been enjoying our favorite free entertainment each night: Firefly season in Chris's garden. Fireflies have been working their magic each night from dusk on, sparkling against the backdrop of the deep green foliage and illuminating the ghostly white flowers of the Annabelle hydrangeas, spireas, and astilbes with their brief, teasing radiance. And for those like me, who didn't grow up in an area where fireflies are summer residents, it's worth the stroll out of the car park at A Butler's Manor past Mrs. Jagger's field next door, where the sheer abundance of fireflies in their preferred habitat makes the open space a fairy-lit wonderland, almost like a miniature holiday display.
Who says you can't enjoy yourself in the Hamptons without spending a lot of money?
Quote of the Day: The summer night is like a perfection of thought. ---Wallace Stevens